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Body-safe materials 101: how to tell what your intimate products are really made of

The short answer

Body-safe means non-porous and phthalate-free: medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, ABS plastic, or stainless steel. Avoid jelly, rubber and PVC products, and be cautious with TPE/TPR — porous materials cannot be fully cleaned. If a product smells strongly of chemicals, feels greasy, or has no material listed at all, do not put it near your body.

Unlike children's toys or food containers, intimate products are barely regulated for material safety in most countries, Australia included. Nobody checks what a factory means when it prints "silicone" on a box. That leaves the checking to you — and it is easier than it sounds once you know what to look for.

The safe list, in order of preference

Material Porous? Cleanable Notes
Medical-grade silicone No Soap and water The default choice for soft products
Borosilicate glass No Dishwasher-safe Compatible with all lubricants
Stainless steel (316) No Dishwasher-safe Heavy; holds temperature
ABS plastic No Soap and water Common for hard shells and housings

All four are non-porous, which is the property that actually matters: a non-porous surface can be genuinely cleaned, while a porous one absorbs moisture and harbours bacteria no matter how carefully you wash it.

The avoid list

Jelly, rubber, PVC and "cyberskin" materials are porous, frequently contain phthalate plasticisers, and often aren't stable over time — that greasy film on an old jelly product is the material itself leaching out. No price is low enough to justify them.

TPE and TPR sit in the middle: non-toxic and phthalate-free from reputable makers, but still porous. Treat TPE products as short-lived and external-only, and never share them.

Three checks you can do before buying

  1. Read the material line, not the headline. "Silky soft touch" is marketing; "medical-grade silicone" or "platinum-cured silicone" is a material. If a listing does not name a material at all, that is your answer.
  2. Check the price against reality. A full-size silicone massager cannot retail for eight dollars — platinum-cure silicone is an expensive raw material. Implausibly cheap almost always means PVC blend or untested TPE.
  3. Trust your nose when it arrives. Real silicone, glass and steel have essentially no smell. A strong chemical or vinyl odour that persists after washing means plasticisers are off-gassing — return it.

Why this matters more for intimate products than anything else you buy

Mucous membranes absorb chemicals far more readily than external skin does, and intimate products are used against them for extended periods, often with heat and friction. The same phthalate exposure rules that are legally enforced for a teething ring do not exist here — so the material bar you set yourself should be at least as high.

Every product we stock at Velaine lists its full material composition in the specifications table, and we do not stock porous materials at all. That is not a boast; it is the minimum standard we think the whole category should meet.

Frequently asked questions

Is TPE safe for intimate products?+

TPE is not toxic, but it is porous — it cannot be fully sterilised, so bacteria can persist inside the material after washing. It is acceptable for external, short-lived products but silicone is categorically better for anything used internally or kept long-term.

How can I tell real silicone from fake?+

Real silicone is matte or satin to the touch, has no strong smell, and doesn't feel greasy. A flame test (touching a flame briefly to an inconspicuous spot) chars real silicone into grey ash, while PVC or jelly blends melt — though checking the seller's material listing and price realism is safer than testing.

What are phthalates and why do they matter?+

Phthalates are plasticisers used to soften PVC and jelly plastics. Several are restricted in children's toys in Australia, the EU and the US because of endocrine (hormone) disruption concerns — but adult products are largely unregulated, so they still appear in cheap jelly items. Phthalate-free is a minimum bar for anything touching mucous membranes.

Is glass really safe?+

Borosilicate glass — the laboratory and oven-dish standard — is one of the safest materials available: completely non-porous, compatible with every lubricant, and cleanable in a dishwasher. Inspect any glass product for chips before use and retire it if you find one.

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